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Dream Scenario Review: Nicolas Cage Stars in Hilarious, Surreal Comedy – IndieWire

December 11, 2023 by humorouz Leave a Comment

Norwegian filmmaker Kristoffer Borgli is obsessed with the internet’s effect on the collective unconscious, and — in turn — the collective unconscious’ effect on individual self-image. In other words, he makes extremely online movies about modern fame. 

Borgli’s scabrous debut feature, “Drib,” was an unclassifiable meta-satire about 21st century marketing, and his follow-up, “Sick of Myself,” told the story of a beautiful young barista so desperate for attention that she begins taking massive doses of an underground Russian club drug that causes the flesh to rot off her bones just so that people might look at her. His third and most complete film, the hilariously surreal (and comparatively sweet) “Dream Scenario,” is a Kaufman-esque cautionary tale starring Nicolas Cage as a nerdy college professor who spontaneously begins appearing to perfect strangers around the world in their sleep. A meme without a modem. At first it’s a novelty, then it’s a blessing, and then it’s a nightmare. Attention is nice, but buyer beware: You have no control over how other people see you in their heads. 

Before it becomes what Borgli describes as one of his “constructive bullyings of our collective behavior,” “Dream Scenario” is simply the best absurdist comedy of its kind since “Anomalisa” (the Kaufman connection being further cemented by a Cage performance that feels like it was born from superimposing both of his “Adaptation” characters on top of each other. …And also by a running joke about antkind). We first meet Paul Matthews — bald, goofy, and nasal-voiced to an extent that suggests the inside of his head is just a single giant nasal polyp — in a dream that one of his two daughters is having. It’s a dream that all too accurately caricatures his general vibe of abject uselessness: Various objects fall from the sky (keys, shoes, a human being) and threaten to crush his teenage daughter to death as Paul rakes leaves by the pool, and yet he doesn’t move a muscle to intervene. He just stands there. He doesn’t even have the “Force Majeure” instinct for self-preservation. 

Generally it would seem like Paul is a big fucking loser, but he’s tenured at the local university, his kids seem to like him well enough, and he’s married to Julianne Nicholson; by the standards of an unpublished evolutionary biologist professor who sounds like Steve Urkel and wishes that he could take his own face off, our man is doing just fine. But there’s always a part of you that wants more, and that’s the part that tends to get you into trouble. Sure, Paul may have taken his wife’s last name, and yes, someone who teaches their students about the Darwinian effectiveness of zebra stripes — which help the animals to survive by allowing them to blend into the herd — should probably know better, but he can’t help but want a little recognition, even if it might attract some predators along the way. 

So yeah, Paul’s not exactly mad when an ex-girlfriend comes out of the woodwork to reveal that she’s been dreaming of him all the time. She can’t imagine why her subconscious brain is fixated on such an unremarkable person from her past (and why it has Paul just stand there regardless of what else is happening in the chaos of her sleeping mind), but it seems worth mentioning. And soon after that, like a hyper-accelerated version of the Mandela Effect, hundreds of other people begin seeing Paul in their dreams as well. And then thousands. And then, just as he reaches the tipping point required to become a new kind of viral celebrity, what he does in people’s dreams begins to change.

Borgli may have had some trouble scaling the body horror in “Sick of Myself,” but the elastic premise of his latest script offers him no such trouble; for all of the high-concept semi-comedies that we get these days, precious few have had this much fun just following their own rules to logical conclusions. The sight of a bearded Cage apathetically standing on the sidelines as someone is ripped apart by a blood demon conjured by their own subconscious is inherently funny stuff (Ari Aster is one of the film’s producers, and his fingerprints are all over it), and Paul’s general befuddlement over the situation in his waking life is likewise the stuff of reliable comic gold. There’s a shit-eating aspect to how much he delights in the newfound attention, and the only predictable thing about this movie is that Paul is going to follow a similar trajectory to John Cusack’s ego-driven puppeteer in “Being John Malkovich,” but the first half of “Dream Scenario” thinks of him with the sweetness of an unassuming nobody who happened to go viral without trying. Like Ken Bone, but somehow even less savvy. 

It’s only when Paul’s role in other people’s dreams begins to evolve that he starts entertaining the full possibilities of his latent fame, and Borgli similarly leaps at the chance to make the most of it. What he does with that chance looks very different than, say, what the Daniels recently created from a scenario that allowed them to violate the boundaries of conventional logic, but the results of Borgli’s cringe-driven minimalism are almost as uproarious. 

What comes of Paul’s meeting with a branding agency led by Michael Cera is best left for audiences to discover themselves (incepting Obama is just the tip of the iceberg), but one close-up of Dylan Gelula biting her lip in Paul’s general direction — the “Her Smell” actress playing Cera’s assistant with equal parts ironic detachment and psychosexual lust in a performance funny enough to carry the entire movie — is enough to get a basic idea of what comes next. Being in people’s heads all the time is a strange and powerful thing, and very few (if any) films have better or more literally illustrated how the human brain hasn’t evolved to handle such a complete lack of mental boundaries. 

Considering how inevitable it becomes that “Dream Scenario” will veer toward cancel culture in its third act, it’s a shame that Borgli struggles to have more fun with that part of Paul’s trajectory. His imagination dries up a bit as the worm starts to turn on the professor’s fame, and while the film’s basic conceit offers an ultra-lucid expression of how it might feel to be shunned by strangers for something you feel like you didn’t even do (Paul’s actions in other people’s dreams being perhaps more tangibly upsetting to the public than a bad tweet, but still just as divorced from physical reality), this last stretch of the story is far too earthbound to land with the same absurdist force as the rest of it. 

If “Dream Scenario” never risks curdling into the same kind of nightmare that it visits upon its characters, that’s because of how delicately it dolls out its sympathies. Paul is every bit as pathetic and annoying as any of the online personalities we live with every day, but he’s also at the mercy of a mental construction that has very little to do with him, and so the “cancel culture” of it all saves itself from being too obvious — or, on the other hand, too trollish — because we can never quite pin down the extent to which he deserves to be a pariah. At the end of the day, what Paul is most guilty of is losing track of what’s real; of prioritizing his role in the collective unconscious over the one he plays for the people who actually care about him in real life. And in that way, “Dream Scenario” doesn’t represent a groundbreaking new form of comedy so much as it resolves into an ingeniously modern riff on the most classic of morals: Love is everything, and likes are only good for selling books.

Grade: B+

“Dream Scenario” premiered at the 2023 Toronto International Film Festival. A24 will release it in theaters on Friday, November 10.

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Parenting Beyond Expectations: Celebrating Every Smile with My Son

December 11, 2023 by humorouz Leave a Comment

When people observe me with my son, Lucas, one of the most common responses is about how there’s so much love between us. Whether it’s a comment on social media under a blog post or an observation from his pediatrician, it is easy for them to see that he, much like his sister, means the world to me.

They’re spot on in that assessment. My boy brings happiness into my life. The times that we’re together are some of my fondest and, no matter how bad my day has been, he can always make it brighter.

The reason why people might think this is commendable or unique is that Lucas is non-verbal. His autism affects him in many profound ways and, because of that, there are many aspects to our life together that might make a parent shudder. Just as it is with most kids, there’s work to be done in raising him. That work is just as substantial, but in different ways than his neurotypical sibling.

Lucas doesn’t face typical social or academic challenges, Instead, his focus is on life skills and communication. When people see me with him, they might imagine how overwhelming it would be to be in my position, suddenly tasked with caring for a child like mine. To be honest, it would be overwhelming, and the imagined scenario can indeed be scary.

However, that’s not the scenario I find myself in. I haven’t been transported here magically. The 12-year-old boy by my side is someone I’ve come to know over the span of 12 years. Everything we do and understand about each other has been a gradual process, with its fair share of ups and downs. This is a crucial piece of advice I’d offer to any new parent of a child with autism – understanding and connecting with your child takes time and experience.

Ironically, while it may be one of the biggest pieces of advice I could offer, it is also advice that can’t simply be given. It has to be lived. You must experience it to finally realize how to break that desire to make your child interact with the world in a way you’ve long deemed “correct”. It takes a change in thinking and perception. It takes patience from both parent and child. It comes with time.

Reflecting on the journey, there’s no single epiphany story to share, no “aha” moment that altered everything in one sweeping motion. Instead, it was a gradual process of adjustment. For years, I would try various activities, hoping they would catch on with Lucas, even when they initially seemed like a bust. The key was persistence because he might suddenly develop a fondness for something, as he did with swimming pools and bowling alleys. It took that consistent effort for us to discover his favorite places and activities. 

So, what changed over time? Well, me. I did. Instead of dwelling on what Lucas didn’t enjoy and falling into a funk over it, I accepted it and focused on finding other sources of joy for him in those situations. Unable to sit for Santa pictures? No problem. We’d explore Christmas tree displays or admire the twinkling lights. Not interested in hay rides at the fair? We’d run through fields and enjoy apple cider. We turned seemingly disastrous outings into cherished memories. It all comes down to a simple mantra I live by when taking my son out.

It’s not about where we go. it’s about what we do when we get there.

My son’s preferences may be unconventional, but so am I. We can find happiness in any situation, and a trip to the petting zoo isn’t a failure just because he doesn’t pet the goat or whatever bug-covered animal is there. It’s a failure only if we don’t do anything that brings a smile to his face, even if it’s just a little one. When all else fails, we can sit on a bench, watch people, and I can quietly sing him Raffi songs that I know will make him smile. It’s all about embracing happiness in our own unique way.

At the end of the day, that’s what we want, right? We want our kids to be happy. We want them to enjoy their time with us. We want them to know that we will always care about their feelings. Those are the things I try to do with him. I know that he can sense it and appreciates it.

Do I wish we could do more traditional father-son things together? Sports? Movies? Teenager activities? When he was younger, I would have said yes one hundred times over. Today, honestly – not really.

Don’t get me wrong, I would love to be able to take him to wrestling matches or cheer him on from the soccer sidelines. Those things, though, don’t really pop into my brain as much as they did when he was younger. In fact, they rarely pop in there at all. That’s not who he is.

They did when he was around five or six and kids were just getting into those things. So, in my mind, there was still that thought of, “He should be out there playing like others his age. What am I doing wrong? I’m not helping him get the most of his life.”

Now, he’s not a little boy with a blank slate personality canvas. He’s on the cusp of teenage years and we both know who he is. Who he is is special and distinctive. Would I love him to suddenly love basketball or some of the activities I loved as a kid? Sure. But am I lamenting for it and feeling crushed because it’s not happening? Nah. They’re just not his thing. We don’t need it in order to get along. 

That’s what made those observations about what he liked doing, as opposed to what other kids liked doing, so necessary. Without those open-minded realizations, I’d just have a list of things he didn’t like, rather than insight into what he does. I wouldn’t know who my son is. I’d just know who he’s not. Even the most devoted parents would struggle with that type of situation.

I’m glad I gave him a chance to show me who he truly is and I’m so grateful that I have gotten to know him as I have. Anyone who has done the same will know that’s why even those who barely know us can see so much love here. If you get to know him, you’ll find it’s pretty hard to not love a kid like mine.

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One M*A*S*H Scene Was So Funny It Had To Be Filmed Almost 20 Times – /Film

December 11, 2023 by humorouz Leave a Comment

One M*A*S*H Scene Was So Funny It Had To Be Filmed Almost 20 Times The old saw that holds “drama is easy, comedy is hard” typically refers to the fact that it is extremely difficult to actually be funny. Obviously, engaging an audience on stage or through a theater/television screen is a challenge regardless of the genre, but there’s a particular skill to getting a laugh (i.e. timing) that some people simply don’t possess. And some actors are so skilled at this craft that their co-stars occasionally have a hard time keeping it together in the moment. There are loads of stories out there about actors who were just so effortlessly funny that cast and crew members had a hard time holding it together while shooting a scene. It should come as no surprise that Robin Williams was especially adept at this. Directors aren’t always as amused as everyone else, as it’s their job to make sure they get at least one usable take and move on to the next shot. This is how you make days and keep from going over budget. But some things simply can’t be helped, as Larry Gelbart, Gary Burghoff, Harry Morgan and McLean Stevenson learned during the third season of “M*A*S*H.” An lightly amusing scene turned into a howler for Gary Burghoff According to Ed Solomonson and Mark O’Neill’s “T.V.’s M*A*S*H: The Ultimate Guide Book,” shooting the third-season episode “The General Flipped at Dawn” hit a snag when Burghoff kept bursting into laughter during a scene where Morgan, as Major Barford Hamilton Steele (he wouldn’t join the cast as Colonel Sherman T. Potter until the following season), chastised him. Burghoff recalled the scene being “unbearably funny” to perform, even though the actual moment is hardly a gut-buster. In the book, Gelbart recalled that they shot the scene at the Fox Ranch in Malibu Hills, a location used repeatedly for the “Planet of the Apes” franchise. Per Gelbart, “The situation (with General Steele) was based on a real one that [writer] Everett Greenbaum witnessed during his days as a Navy pilot in WW2.” So why, if the single piece of dialogue in question was not a killer punchline, did Burghoff keep losing it? The blame for this rests squarely on the shoulders of McLean Stevenson. How Burghoff’s chemistry with Morgan might’ve saved M*A*S*H Here’s how Burghoff related the filming of the scene to Solomonson and O’Neill: “Harry, as Steele, is inspecting the troops and I can see him coming. Harry asks me a question and then yells, ‘NO TALKING IN RANKS!’ I knew it was coming and I’d start to go. I think we did it like 18 times.” How did Stevenson factor into Burghoff’s uncontrollable laughter? And did this bother Morgan, who evidently wasn’t laughing at all? Per Burghoff: “See, behind Harry was McLean. And I’d see that silly expression on McLean’s face. But Morgan was secure, as an actor, so he’d be ok if you’d go (break up). I think that was the decisive moment when Gelbart and Reynolds saw the incredible chemistry with Morgan. I think you probably see me biting my lip in one of those long shots when Harry Morgan is inspecting us.” When Morgan made his debut as Potter the following season, this chemistry was crucial to the survival of the show. Stevenson’s Lieutenant Colonel Henry Blake was an audience favorite, and the tragic death of his character, announced at the very end of the third season finale, devastated fans to such a degree that they complained to CBS (which infuriated the network’s execs). It was a tall order for Morgan to replace such a beloved character, but he did so brilliantly. Indeed, his portrayal of Potter won him a Primetime Emmy for Outstanding Supporting Actor in a Comedy or Variety or Music Series in 1980. So Burghoff blowing somewhere in the neighborhood of 17 takes proved to be a good omen for the continued success of “M*A*S*H.”

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‘My gran is refusing to speak to me over the baby name we chose – she thinks it’s a joke’ – Mirror Online

December 10, 2023 by humorouz Leave a Comment

Choosing your baby‘s name is a major decision. Whether traditional or quirky and unique, picking the perfect moniker can be a bit of a challenge – and at the end of the day, not everyone may love your choice.

Many new mums and dads decide to name their newborn after a family member, or take inspiration from their name. And that’s exactly what happened to one woman who thought she had found a way to honour both grandmothers – only for her own grandma to flip out.

Taking to Reddit, the woman explained that she has a two-month-old baby girl and – in keeping with family tradition – they were preparing to host a little party to celebrate her arrival. It’s also the time that they receive personalised gifts from their loved ones.

“We don’t announce the baby’s name until after the birth to make it a surprise,” she explained. “At the little party we give the parents a bunch of little gifts that have the new baby’s name on them. My grandmother always quilts a beautiful baby blanket and embroiders the baby’s name. She’s done this for all my sisters and cousins. The issue is the name my husband and I chose for our daughter.”

The grandmother has her own unique history with her name. She was born Lucille but at the age of eight, started telling everyone she wanted to be called Barbara – and she even went so far as to change her name legally. When asked why, she simply said it was because she liked Barbara better.

Meanwhile, her husband’s grandmother was a big I Love Lucy fan – the pair would watch it together before her death when he was 19. And so, the couple thought they would honour both women by naming their daughter Lucy. Following the birth, the proud new parents Facetimed the whole family to introduce the baby and announce her name. “A few of my relatives laughed and said it was cute but my grandma was dead silent.

When I asked her what was wrong she demanded to know why I chose Lucy. I was shocked and confused,” the woman revealed. “I began to try and explain but she suddenly hung up. This greatly dampened the mood. My grandma wouldn’t answer any calls from me afterwards. I asked my oldest sister and she said that my grandma was apparently offended and thought we were mocking her. She said she’s not coming to the party in a few weeks to meet my daughter in person and that she’s not giving the baby quilt to us unless we apologise and change our daughter’s name. I don’t know why it’s escalated so much. My grandma has always been kind. I have no idea what to do.”

The upset new mum then reached out to the Reddit community for advice. “There’s trauma there that grandma isn’t sharing. But that’s her issue, not yours. NTA,” someone wrote in response. A second said: “I’m sorry, but no, if grandma had that big of a problem with her name, she should have said YEARS ago, that no one is allowed to use it.”

A third person added: “She wanted to change her name at age 8. Something happened back then, bullied at school, SA, something like that. Maybe a female member of the family could go, perhaps one of OP’s parents or siblings and one of OP’s husband’s family members, and explain why the baby was named this. Find some way, other than changing the baby’s name, that they can move forward.” And a fourth added: “NTA. But there is more to that story. Trauma. People lie to avoid discussing trauma. She probably played it off as a joke why she changed her name, and no one knows the whole story.”

Do you agree? Let us know in the comments.

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Funny Tweets About Road Trips With Kids | HuffPost Life

December 10, 2023 by humorouz Leave a Comment

“Take a road trip with at least two excitable chimpanzees with everfull bladders, endless appetites and terrible taste in music to find out if having kids is right for you”

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